Thursday, April 25, 2013

DOUBLEHEADER



Wow.  This month we got two new products from California Exotics to try, both from their new First Time Fetish line.  I really, really like this job.

So let's get right to it.  First is the Seduction Kit, which consists of four 30” long, grey satin sashes, along with a matching blindfold.  All are made from a thin, silky material, with black accent stitching around the edges.  The blindfold has two elastic straps, and is very form-fitting because the material is so thin, but...it also allows enough light through to see shapes, which diminishes the effect of being blindfolded.  For a first-timer though, this may be a good thing, since that's less threatening than complete blackness. 
A blindfold is probably Bianca’s favorite bit of bdsm gear; she likes the thrill of erotic anticipation, of not being able to see what's coming next…besides her…!  Tonight I set out a fitted black leather blindfold, along with the satin sashes, and waited for Binaca in the bedroom.  She was playing right along, dressed for fun, in a schoolgirl outfit, a pink plaid skirt and stretchy white blouse, which she had completed with white cotton panties; with a smile, Bianca lifted her skirt to show me the panties.

She stretched out on the bed, her tantalizing mix of skin and plaid, which I enjoyed thoroughly by touch and sight, heated up, as we kissed, stroked, pressed against each other.  Until it was time for her blindfold, which I had her put on, and lay back down for more stroking and kissing, noticeably hotter now.  Then I suddenly stopped, and to her surprised gasps, I reached under her skirt, grabbed her panties off, picked up a sash, and tied her ankles together.  She was still shaking while I teased her thighs and breasts; her nipples were trying to push through the stretchy blouse.  Now I took my time, savoring her shivers of delight, and how her legs pulled against the ankle sash.  Sidebar:  This showed one of the shortcomings of these sashes.  They're only 30” long, which was barely enough to cross-tie Bianca’s ankles.  Just keep that in mind – they’re kind of short.  

Our testing continues.  A long, thin silk ribbon is one of our favorite bdsm accessories.  Surprised?  Here’s why:  Bianca loves the feeling of that ribbon being pulled slowly through her pussy, tightly, right over her clit, and I love being the puller…!  So it was time to try that trick with one of these new sashes.  I untied Bianca’s legs, draped the sash on the bed between her thighs, being sure to brush across her pussy (quivers..!), then reached into the nightstand and took out a length of black rope (hint: always keep rope nearby…).

So she could feel the rope I laid some across her bare stomach (more quivers…!), and she lifted her hips off the bed.  I pulled the roped around underneath her, and with her arms at her sides, tied the rope around her waist and wrists, and spread her legs.  Now, with one hand pressing down on the sash gathered between her legs, I pulled the end slowly and tightly through her pussy, so it remained right against her clit.  As expected, this drove her crazy, producing a chorus of little moans, music to my ears. 

And that was it for the sashes, as I couldn't wait to be inside her.  She wanted the blindfold off now, which I gladly obliged, and we proceeded to deeper thrills.  The pussy sash had done its job, and Bianca was scorchingly hot.  And ready for our testing to continue, with the second bdsm accessory, Nipple Teasers, also part of the First Time collection.  This is a set of alligator style nipple clips, with soft plastic coated tips, and pressure adjustment, connected by a 12” chain; it’s a classic piece of bdsm gear.
Nipple teasing is a tricky issue with Bianca, because her nipples are very sensitive.  However, as she gets closer to orgasm, her pain/pleasure tolerance goes way up, and the right amount of nipple pinching has proven to really stoke her fires.  She was hot enough now to consider using the clips - gotta be bold - so with a very moderate pressure, I gingerly, momentarily applied one clip.  Bianca responded immediately, squirming and moaning, and we quickly developed a throbbing rhythm with me alternately applying and releasing the clip.  But…


We never got to the second clip, because as I shifted position, I inadvertently pressed down on the other end of the chain, which yanked hard on the clip attached to her nipple...!  Bianca screamed, and not the good kind; as you might imagine, this was a real mood-breaker.  Off with the clip!!  Amazingly enough though, she said to me afterward, “Don’t stop trying….”  I’m a lucky man. 

OK, now sashes aside, we quickly got back to our orgasmic pursuits, heat intact, maybe even a little enhanced by the shock, and Bianca climaxed hotly and wildly, with me following almost immediately.  Sex is the only game where finishing second is winning! 

After we same back to earth, we explored the sashes further.  We tried tying two sashes together - with a big knot – to use as a gag.  That works great, but Bianca was concerned about having the fabric in her mouth, since we hadn't washed the sashes first.  So maybe we'll try that next time, after doing the laundry...!  And two sashes tied together would provide other options. 

Overall, both of these products are perfect for novices: a simple, basic bdsm set that provides lots of restraint possibilities, and an introduction to the edgy thrills of nipple play. I’d recommend starting with the Seduction Kit, and you’ll soon know if sexy bondage is for you.