FOUR CUFFS AND A GAG

Wow. A much-anticipated package arrived last week from California Exotics, with our monthly product to review; I had requested the new Bondage Bar, part of the expanded Scandal™ line, and was excited to see that it was there. Plus, there was also a surprise product, a matching Bar Gag, which was incredibly perfect for us.

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Bianca has been reluctant to be gagged in our bondage scenes. Whatever gags we've tried were more uncomfortable than stimulating; she was, however, immediately intrigued by this gag. We've never tried a bar gag, or bit gag. "This might be good...!", Bianca gleefully proclaimed when she opened the package. Turns out it was very, very good. In fact,Bianca and I have reached a new level of excitement and surrender in our dom/sub play, thanks to this bar gag. I've gagged her twice since we got it, and each time was crazy hotter than either of us could have anticipated.

The Bondage Bar wasn't what I expected though; from the advertising I had assumed it was a type of spreader, a rigid bar wrapped in fabric, with four cuffs attached, similar to other products I'd seen. Instead, it's a 22" long fabric strap, with four cuffs attached, with the signature Scandal brocade shell, and a soft microfiber lining. It's a nice piece, with great bondage potential, so I quickly adjusted. The Bar Gag uses a matching brocade sash, run through a soft black tube, and tied behind your willing submissive's head to hold the bar in her mouth. We could hardly wait to use them, (me especially, the way Bianca gushed about the gag...) and so we made a date for Saturday late afternoon. I cleaned the gag and handed it, and the cuff strap, to Bianca; she set them both on the nightable.  

"I think I've figured out how to tie that Shibari harness...", I told her the Friday before, having been planning scenarios for our upcoming date. Bianca loves the feel of silicone rope on her body, especially as a crotch rope. Traditional Shibari ties use two crotch ropes, but when they're silicone, as we unpleasantly discovered, they tend to grab and pull hairs; so I've been designing how to tie a harness with a single crotch rope. "Oh no, c'mon...we already have two new goodies to play with, so that's for another time...!", she laughed. I really couldn't argue. "OK, but the crotchless pantyhose stay...", I grinned. We headed to our bathrooms for showers.

"How about white fishnet stockings with my white lace stretch top...", Bianca asked, "...I'm still too damp from the shower to get the pantyhose on...".  "Sure...", I grinned (it's good to be flexible... crotchless pantyhose another time), and laid back to watch her fit into the tight top and put on the stockings; she enjoys knowing how it turns me on, seeing her dress for sex. She sat cross-legged on the bed, and I knelt behind her, to kiss and caress her neck and body; then she laid down. "Now let's see about this Bondage Bar, er strap...", as I reached down and wrapped an outer cuff around each ankle, and Bianca adjusted to having her legs restrained. "OK, now your wrists...", I ordered her, motioning for her to sit up. "Wha..huh..you mean sit up? No, I don't bend like that..." she protested, but relented, and I helped her sit up and lean forward until her wrists were also cuffed to the strap; she wiggled around adjusting herself as I knelt behind her again. Now each touch evoked little moans, and trembling, and my very hard cock pressing into Bianca's back; this bondage strap has potential (!). Enough for now though, so I released her wrist cuffs and she laid back down. Much to my delight, Bianca asked, "Where's my new gag...?". I very quickly handed it to her, and she placed the bar in her mouth, crossed the sash under her head (not tied yet...), laid her head back down, and said, "Mffmmmm...!". So hot.

Now it was time for more restraint. I cuffed her wrists and fastened them to the bed straps from the top of the bed. And feeling very naughty, I used a belt around her thighs to draw her legs tightly together. "Mmffffmmmmm...!!", she gasped with my every touch and tease from then on. Being gagged wildly increased Bianca's arousal; she would tell me later, that since she couldn't say anything, she just surrendered, more than ever before, and wow, with my lubed finger on her clit, between her tightly-bound legs, her thrashing orgasm was certainly epic. Then with her still shaking, and moaning hot gag talk, I took off the belt, so her legs could open, but only a little, because her ankles were still cuffed to the bondage strap...! And that was just open enough for me to ride her missionary-style, pounding hard, while she kept coming the whole time, bucking and pulling on the wrist restraint straps, with her moans muffled through the bar gag for a thrilling sound track, I came like a freight train. No fantasy this time, Bianca was really gagged and very much loving it...! 

I was speechless, too. A new era has arrived.We liked these products a lot.

ANKLE COLLAR UP

The next best thing to having sex is writing about having sex...!

Our monthly surprise sex toy arrived last week, and has already made a name for itself in our bedroom; the timing was perfect for this silky silicone probe. Not a vibrator, just a double-hump, flexible shaft, and made from beautiful, smooth silicone, and seamlessly molded onto a short, chromed-metal neck with a grip ring. It was great to touch, and later, I really appreciated the grip ring - slippery sex toys can otherwise be difficult to control...! Here's the new addition:

 

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This "Flex It Up!" is from Cal Exotics' UP! line, a mid-range collection of vibrators and probes featuring top-quality silicone finishes. This was a great example; it felt great everywhere and we both liked it.  I immediately envisioned the perfect bondage scene for its debut.

Bianca's getting more comfortable with being tied more restrictively, and I've been imagining how tying her legs tightly together might make flogging deliciously hotter; those almost-reaching-her-pussy strokes would be a maddening tease. And this little stimulator would fit that scene very well. Turns out, my instincts were correct. 

The new toy was lying on the bed, along with Bianca in a red silk robe, with its thin satin belt tied around her breasts, and nothing else; what a nice present...! We played around with the new toy, and loved the smoothness of the silicone. I adjusted and re-tied the satin belt, you know, just a little tighter. Finally, she implored me, "Where's my cuffs...?". In a moment of inspiration, though, I took out the wide collar we had used once before..."I want to try something...", I said, and reaching down, drew her legs together, wrapped the collar around her ankles - and it fit perfectly...! With a few wriggles, Bianca quickly got comfortable with this arrangement. Ummm, hot. Now I cuffed her wrists, and taking the underbed straps out from the sides, clipped them to her extended arms. Ummm, hotter. And for a final touch, a blindfold. Yum.
 
Now I took out her favorite pussy flogger, a small whip with suede tails, and began by dragging the tails slowly across her body, producing little quivers. Then a few tugs on the belt across her breasts, and I began flogging directly over her crotch, in cycles, increasing frequency and hardness, then starting over, until...I had another idea. "Ohhh...umm.." Bianca murmured when I stopped. "I have another idea...", I said, untying the satin belt, sliding it out and then back under her legs and holding it tightly around her thighs, then resuming the flogging, this time to her hips rising off the bed with each stroke. "Ohhhhhh, no more....", she begged. Finally, it was time for our new toy. With a generous application of lube, I proceeded to slide the new stimulator between her legs, up and down across her clit and pussy. "Uuhhhhhnng...ghhhhgg...", she gurgled in delight. So smooth, so slick, so easy to hold with my finger through the grip ring, this little teaser was working wonders. And it was time for more.

I removed the collar from her ankles, and immediately cuffed and connected them each loosely to straps coming from the foot of the bed; I had further plans. We have two underbed systems installed, so there's straps on both sides, and the foot, and the head, eight straps in all. Very highly recommended. So now I connected a strap from each side to each ankle cuff as well, and gradually tightened both the bottom and side straps until Bianca's legs were spread very wide, and held nearly immobile. Ummmm, very very hot. "Oooohhhh...!", she jumped when the stimulator first touched her, then twisting and thrusting in ecstasy with each deeper stroke, until the shaft was completely buried inside. Naughty boy that I am, I grabbed the always-handy crop, and delivered a few good whacks directly over her frenzied clit, before teasing her to an earthquake-level orgasm. Then, removing the stimulator and tightening the leg straps a little bit first - hotter! - I took my cock's good time enjoying the heat of her throbbing pussy...but I wasn't done yet. "I'm not done with you just yet...", I told Bianca, as I reached for a length of black nylon bondage rope. I tightened the side straps, stretching her arms out further, doubled the rope, tied the loop end onto one cuff's D-ring, laid it across her body and went to the other side of the bed, positioned the ropes on either side of her nipples, pulled tight, and tied the ropes to her other wrist cuff. "Now, now, you're ready...and I'm ready..." I panted, and back on top, I came sensationally into sweaty collapse, while Bianca positively writhed against the restraints. Ummm, we like it like that!

Flex It Up! We'll be using this again. Every sex toy drawer should have one.

ROSIE AND MAX

"But Rosie you're all right - you wear my ring
When you hold me tight - Rosie that's my thing
When you turn out the light - I've got to hand it to me
Looks like it's me and you again tonight Rosie"

-Jackson Browne

I've been told that I possess a good touch, and I couldn't agree more with Jackson Browne.  With that touch of mine, and rampant imagination, I've made masturbation an artform. Hey - anything worth doing, is worth doing well, right? I've accessorized. I've added vibration. And because I built the Sexy Bondage Restraints' website product by product, and image by image, I've got three lifetimes worth of visual stim. Why I'm telling all this now is because this month, our product review sexploration features an Apollo Reversible Premium Masturbator Max, a new masturbation sleeve made from fleshlike TPR, and this is the backdrop against which I'm reviewing. When this arrived, Bianca just handed it to me and said, "Enjoy...!", so this was going to be a solo flight.

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 Being reversible is a cool feature. One side has the ribs and dimples you see in the pic, and the other side is smooth but sculpted for sensation; one end is closed to create more suction. Overall, this stroker is 4-3/4" long, with enough girth to fit my hand comfortably.  The material is supple and skinlike, and feels good to the touch. For me, though, masturbator sleeves are just more trouble than they're worth. I do very well bare-handed. And you have to either clean or toss these afterward. And maybe, too, it's because my cock is regularly inside a real pussy, but I've just never seen the point. I didn't even come with this one; I played around with it in the shower, but frankly, I do me so much better, so I did.

Obviously, though, there's a lot of men who dig these things, and this one's got great potential; I liked the smooth side better - the suction was great. Even so, I guess I'm just a romantic, but I still prefer the bare-handed route.

I'm not putting this away just yet though. I've started to imagine a scenario where Bianca, blindfolded, and with her wrists tied together, has to get me off by using this stroker. Yep, that could work. Hmmm, I should have the long-handled crop ready nearby, too...

DEPARTMENT OF SEXUAL ENGINEERING

We're in the midst of reorganizing the Sexy Bondage University portion of our website into different colleges, much like traditional universities. So for instance, within this new structure, our monthly product reviews will be featured under the "Department of Sexual Engineering", because testing and using the latest sex toys requires uh, study and practice. And so it was this month, when we tried the new embrace™ pleasure ring, a vibrating cock ring for me. Life is good.

What we've seen of the embrace™ line so far is really wonderful, with smooth shapes, powerful motors and top-quality silicone finishes; and they're rechargeable, so no batteries ever again...! This one came in the same well-designed packaging, too, an outer cardboard sleeve over a lift-open box, with a fitted foam interior; very nice. OK, then a quick cleanup with soap and water, and find a USB outlet to charge it; the box says a full charge takes 70 minutes.

We both slept late the next morning, had a leisurely breakfast, showered, and were planning to take a drive, when Bianca said, "Uh, unless...you want to...", she nodded mischievously toward the bedroom...and our plans quickly changed; she headed in first, to dress, while I gathered up the new cock ring, and opened the bdsm cabinet.

I've something to say about dressing for sex, for those who think it's unnecessary, or even immoral. Everyone dresses specially for all kinds of occasions in their lives, like weddings, funerals, date nights, job interviews, and sports. Well, sex is a great occasion, where a hot lingerie outfit can turn things positively incendiary, and we both do it. I favor silk boxers, and have made sure that Bianca has a great collection of lingerie to pick from. Sometimes I'll ask her to wear something specific, although usually, she chooses her outfits. We highly recommend having a sex wardrobe.

Today, Bianca wore white fishnet stockings with a white stretch lace top, and no panties, a great mix of naughty and virginal. "Ummm, nice...", I grinned, knowing that what I had planned was definitely not virginal. And we began our dance, with kisses and strokes, cuffs and straps, and another vibrator. It was my favorite, the remote-controlled one with the short shaft and the clit pad. 

With a generous application of gel, I slid the vibrator inside Bianca, and repeatedly brought her almost to coming, as she tugged hard on the straps holding her arms out to the sides, and bucked against the straps holding her legs down. "Oohhhhuuuuuhhh...let...my...legs...out...", she begged. I finally did, and at the same time, took out the vibrator. "ohhhhhhhh...", she gasped. I had turned on the cock ring and now stretched it on, laid down on Bianca missionary style, and entered her craving pussy, keeping the top of the cock ring right on her clit. "Ohhh...OHHH..uuhhhhh...", she moaned, as the combination of my cock inside her, and the vibrations on her clit got her frenzied and almost coming. Product note: impossible to use pushbutton and try other functions in this position; needs remote control.

Many vibrating cock rings are designed with the vibrating part at the top, where it can also stimulate a woman's clitoris during intercourse; a good plan. However, this places the center of gravity way high, and a slippery, lubed cock ring can easily slip over to one side or another. I may have to design a cock ring. Now, back in our bedroom, that's just what happened, the cock ring slid over to the side, and was no longer on Bianca's clit, so it was a good time to change positions. To both of our surprise, I took off the vibrator, and holding the ring like a handle, began using it edgewise,  very directly on her clit...until...that was the last straw...Bianca came deliciously loud, her arms still held outstretched, struggling and wriggling, moaning. Ahhhh, yep, that's my girl. Now it was time for her pussy to finish off my cock, which we did, ever so much, me having a molten-lava orgasm, followed by a lot of mono-syllabic grunting.

Later, Bianca suggested that next time we use this cock ring, to keep the vibrator facing down, instead of fighting gravity; that would solve the slide-over problem. Hmmm, in that position, I'd get my balls buzzed, and Bianca gets perineum stim...YES, we'll give that a try...! This vibrator has plenty more play left. Good toy. embrace™ pleasure ring WMS3680.