DEPARTMENT OF SEXUAL ENGINEERING

We're in the midst of reorganizing the Sexy Bondage University portion of our website into different colleges, much like traditional universities. So for instance, within this new structure, our monthly product reviews will be featured under the "Department of Sexual Engineering", because testing and using the latest sex toys requires uh, study and practice. And so it was this month, when we tried the new embrace™ pleasure ring, a vibrating cock ring for me. Life is good.

What we've seen of the embrace™ line so far is really wonderful, with smooth shapes, powerful motors and top-quality silicone finishes; and they're rechargeable, so no batteries ever again...! This one came in the same well-designed packaging, too, an outer cardboard sleeve over a lift-open box, with a fitted foam interior; very nice. OK, then a quick cleanup with soap and water, and find a USB outlet to charge it; the box says a full charge takes 70 minutes.

We both slept late the next morning, had a leisurely breakfast, showered, and were planning to take a drive, when Bianca said, "Uh, unless...you want to...", she nodded mischievously toward the bedroom...and our plans quickly changed; she headed in first, to dress, while I gathered up the new cock ring, and opened the bdsm cabinet.

I've something to say about dressing for sex, for those who think it's unnecessary, or even immoral. Everyone dresses specially for all kinds of occasions in their lives, like weddings, funerals, date nights, job interviews, and sports. Well, sex is a great occasion, where a hot lingerie outfit can turn things positively incendiary, and we both do it. I favor silk boxers, and have made sure that Bianca has a great collection of lingerie to pick from. Sometimes I'll ask her to wear something specific, although usually, she chooses her outfits. We highly recommend having a sex wardrobe.

Today, Bianca wore white fishnet stockings with a white stretch lace top, and no panties, a great mix of naughty and virginal. "Ummm, nice...", I grinned, knowing that what I had planned was definitely not virginal. And we began our dance, with kisses and strokes, cuffs and straps, and another vibrator. It was my favorite, the remote-controlled one with the short shaft and the clit pad. 

With a generous application of gel, I slid the vibrator inside Bianca, and repeatedly brought her almost to coming, as she tugged hard on the straps holding her arms out to the sides, and bucked against the straps holding her legs down. "Oohhhhuuuuuhhh...let...my...legs...out...", she begged. I finally did, and at the same time, took out the vibrator. "ohhhhhhhh...", she gasped. I had turned on the cock ring and now stretched it on, laid down on Bianca missionary style, and entered her craving pussy, keeping the top of the cock ring right on her clit. "Ohhh...OHHH..uuhhhhh...", she moaned, as the combination of my cock inside her, and the vibrations on her clit got her frenzied and almost coming. Product note: impossible to use pushbutton and try other functions in this position; needs remote control.

Many vibrating cock rings are designed with the vibrating part at the top, where it can also stimulate a woman's clitoris during intercourse; a good plan. However, this places the center of gravity way high, and a slippery, lubed cock ring can easily slip over to one side or another. I may have to design a cock ring. Now, back in our bedroom, that's just what happened, the cock ring slid over to the side, and was no longer on Bianca's clit, so it was a good time to change positions. To both of our surprise, I took off the vibrator, and holding the ring like a handle, began using it edgewise,  very directly on her clit...until...that was the last straw...Bianca came deliciously loud, her arms still held outstretched, struggling and wriggling, moaning. Ahhhh, yep, that's my girl. Now it was time for her pussy to finish off my cock, which we did, ever so much, me having a molten-lava orgasm, followed by a lot of mono-syllabic grunting.

Later, Bianca suggested that next time we use this cock ring, to keep the vibrator facing down, instead of fighting gravity; that would solve the slide-over problem. Hmmm, in that position, I'd get my balls buzzed, and Bianca gets perineum stim...YES, we'll give that a try...! This vibrator has plenty more play left. Good toy. embrace™ pleasure ring WMS3680.

TIGHTER STRAPS

Although she doesn't like to admit it, the more restrictively Bianca's restrained, the more explosively she climaxes. "No, it's not any hotter for me, it's hotter because you like it...", she says. That's partly true - tying her tighter does always make me harder - but there's more. After we've had a particularly wild time when Bianca was tied more restrictively, once we can speak again, I'll usually grin and tell her, "See, you do come harder when you're restrained more tightly...". "Hahummm, well...maybe...", she'll laugh mischievously. My goal here is that she embraces this correlation, and craves the increased pleasure enough to be restrained tighter and tighter. Yummy.

We took a spontaneous step in that direction the other day, thanks to having eight restraint straps around our bed, under the mattress. We've combined two under-the-bed restraint systems into a bondage bonanza, and just discovered a wicked new use for all those straps. But first, about the vibrator.

By far, this is my favorite vibrator to use on Bianca; it's just incredible what it does to her. We had worn one out, and only just replaced it, so I was eager to bring it on. "Do you like my outfit...?", she asked. White fishnet stockings, lace skirt and stretch top - no panties. And she had taken off her usual many bracelets to make way for restraints. "Uh-huh, you look great, honey...", I said, as she laid on the bed and outstretched her arms. "Hmmm, whatever could you want...?", I teased her, while reaching into the bdsm drawer for cuffs. Sometimes she's so easy.

Flash forward. After a nice slow build-up, I've got Bianca hot, cuffed all around, arms restrained out to the sides, legs down to the bottom of the mattress, and wearing a blindfold; she really likes to be blindfolded. Out comes the vibrator; it's all-silicone, with a short insertable shaft and a nubby clit pad...and a remote control. With a generous helping of lube, I slide the vibrator into her pussy, wrapping her lips around the pad pressing up against her clit. "Uhhhhnnnn...", she gurgled. When she has no control like this, running through the different patterns drives Bianca nearly insane, before she comes wildly...like she did this time, too. With my hand on the remote, and the other on her breasts and nipples, Bianca's orgasm shook the walls.

The thing I like most about this vibrator is the short 3" shaft. Bianca likes coming with me inside, filling her up. But here she only gets a little stub, and her still-yearning pussy is wildly hot and pulsating, begging for my cock. Now I was almost ready, just tightening her restraint straps a little more first, when inspiration struck. Taking the two straps from the head of the matteress, and loosening her arms' side straps a little, I could also connect Bianca's wrist cuffs to the upper straps, and then tighten both side and top straps, to fully immobilize her arms, angled toward the corners of the bed, in a way where she was surprisingly comfortable. "Mmmmm..!", she murmured, feeling how she was unable to move her arms, and then, "OOHH...uuhhHHH!...", as I removed the vibrator, and tightened her ankle straps, leaving enough slack of course so I could get between her legs. One more thing - her thighs were just begging for a few paddle smacks, which I happily provided, making her hips, and my cock, bounce each time. I felt about three feet long entering her, and like a stovepipe when I came...! Bianca nearly levitated - it's a good thing she was restrained so tightly...!

"See, that's what I mean about stricter restraint and more intense pleasure...", I boasted. Bianca laughed, but I know she's coming around, which is good, because next time, I'll restrain her legs the same way...!

THE LITTLE DEATH

ONE VERSION

I've often heard that the French call orgasm "Le Petite Mort", the little death, and up until recently I thought that meant the floating, out-of touch with the room, collapsed into throbbing sensation, pulsing strobe light, near-loss of consciousness, twitching body feeling that comes with a good come. And then there was last Saturday afternoon.

Bianca and I showered and prepped for a rendezvous in the bedroom. I'd been imaging using one of our big vibrators on her, so I made sure it was cleaned and fully charged, and brought that with me. Bianca sat on the edge of the bed, putting on a pair of white fishnet stockings; just watching her got my dick bouncing. "My hips are a little off today...", she said, "...so I'd rather not have my legs tied apart any wider than my hips...", she implored me. "Sure honey, we can do that...", I grinned, as Bianca stretched out on her back. I stroked her tummy and breasts, "Mmmm, you  look great in those stockings...", I smiled, while reaching into the nightable drawer and taking out the small spreader bar. "Ohhh, I don't know...", she stammered, as I quickly cuffed her ankles onto the small spreader bar. "Uhhh...that's OK...", she wriggled a little to get comfortable. Knowing that Bianca can't move her legs makes my cock throb. Teasing her when can't move her legs makes Bianca's pussy quiver. Then with me on top for a moment now, I grind some selfish pleasure before sitting back up. "I thought you'd like to wear a blindfold (she usually does...), and I wanted you to try this new one...", I said. "Let me see...", she said, but it just didn't work for her. So it goes; always good to find out. "Then how about your favorite silk one?" I offered and handed it to her; she happily put it on and laid back down.

"Now about those wrists...", I mocked. "oooohhh...!", she mocked back. I sat on the side of the bed and cuffed her wrist;  she reached her arm out to the side, but I had other plans. "No, not that way...", I said, "...this way...", taking an underbed strap from the headboard, and restraining her arm up there. "Ummmm...", Bianca murmured, as I cuffed her other wrist and clipped it to a second strap; we've discovered that she likes this position as much as I do. Now, when I touched her breasts or thighs, or the hairs of her pussy, her hips would gyrate; arousal was building. "You know, you won't be able to fuck me with my legs in this spreader...", Bianca warned me. "Oh, I'll take it off when that time comes...", I promised her, "...but that's not yet...first...", I fingered her pussy with lube, and she shuddered; I turned on the vibrator and touched her clit. "Oooooohhhhhuhhhh...", she gasped, reaching her pussy forward as the thick shaft slid inside her.

This vibrator is a big, curvy rabbit type with the fleshy clit tongue set way down, so it's in very deep when that tongue's touching Bianca's clit; which it now was, filling and teasing her at the same time. I selected an intermittent, building vibration for the shaft and began a slow stroke; Bianca went slightly crazy. Then - surprise - I turned on the second motor at her clit. Before very long, Bianca's writhing, pulsing and pounding her way to an orgasm that shook the walls. I'm hard as a rock, too, watching her pulling hard against the restraints while she comes.

Ohhhh, take - this - thing - off - my - legs...", Bianca asked, her voice coming in short breath bursts because she was still coming. "Gladly...", I said, and uncuffed her ankles from the spreader bar, and withdrew the vibrator; "Ohwhwh...", she pouted. "Here, try this...", I said, cuffing each ankle and connecting them to two straps from the foot of the bed, courtesy of the underbed restraint system. "Better...?" "Uhuhhhh - yeh - uh - tha gud...", she gurgled, still quivering and coming, then thrusting upwards when I lightly smacked her thighs and pussy with a leather paddle, just a few times for that extra sting thrill. Now about that little death.

At this point, I'm almost ready to fuck her. First though, I slowly tighten each of the bondage straps, raising Bianca's arms up higher, and pulling her legs down more firmly. We've discovered, happily, that after coming, more restrictive restraint gets Bianca hotter, edging her out onto the submissive skinny branches. A few more smacks of the paddle, "Ooohhhhhhh...!", and I moved between her legs, and my cock practically leapt into her pussy. First straight-on, then from this kind of half-cross position we like, I pounded Bianca hard, and her arms strained in mid-air, pulling the restraint straps taut; very hot for me to see. Then I'd run my arm down her leg to feel skin, stockings, and the cuff on her ankle. Ummmm. I was 20 again, and pumping like a locomotive. We were both nearly crying in amazement and pleasure when something happened after I started to come. In my overall body sensation there was calm and bright lights, my hips were still thrusting, faster even, and I heard clear thoughts, "Am I going to die right now...wow, what a strange thing to ask myself...uh, I don't know...", but clearly nothing was stopping this orgasm. And it was one wild ride, with  a very loud soundtrack; after consciousness returned, we both burst out laughing. This was a great little death.