Wow. A much-anticipated
package arrived last week from California Exotics, with our monthly product to
review; I had requested the new Bondage Bar, part of the expanded Scandal™ line,
and was excited to see that it was there. Plus, there was also a surprise
product, a matching Bar Gag, which was incredibly perfect for us.
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Bianca has been reluctant to
be gagged in our bondage scenes. Whatever gags we've tried were more uncomfortable
than stimulating; she was, however, immediately intrigued by this gag. We've
never tried a bar gag, or bit gag. "This might be good...!", Bianca gleefully
proclaimed when she opened the package. Turns out it was very, very good. In
fact,Bianca and I have reached a
new level of excitement and surrender in our dom/sub play, thanks to this bar
gag. I've gagged her twice since we got it, and each time was crazy hotter than
either of us could have anticipated.
The Bondage Bar wasn't
what I expected though; from the advertising I had assumed it was a type of
spreader, a rigid bar wrapped in fabric, with four cuffs attached, similar to
other products I'd seen. Instead, it's a 22" long fabric strap, with four
cuffs attached, with the signature Scandal brocade shell, and a soft microfiber
lining. It's a nice piece, with great bondage potential, so I quickly adjusted.
The Bar Gag uses a matching brocade sash, run through a soft black tube, and
tied behind your willing submissive's head to hold the bar in her mouth. We
could hardly wait to use them, (me especially, the way Bianca gushed about the
gag...) and so we made a date for Saturday late afternoon. I cleaned the gag and
handed it, and the cuff strap, to Bianca; she set them both on the nightable.
"I think I've figured
out how to tie that Shibari harness...", I told her the Friday before,
having been planning scenarios for our upcoming date. Bianca loves the feel of
silicone rope on her body, especially as a crotch rope. Traditional Shibari
ties use two crotch ropes, but when they're silicone, as we unpleasantly discovered,
they tend to grab and pull hairs; so I've been designing how to tie a harness
with a single crotch rope. "Oh no, c'mon...we already have two new goodies
to play with, so that's for another time...!", she laughed. I really
couldn't argue. "OK, but the crotchless pantyhose stay...", I
grinned. We headed to our bathrooms for showers.
"How about white
fishnet stockings with my white lace stretch top...", Bianca asked,
"...I'm still too damp from the shower to get the pantyhose
on...". "Sure...", I grinned
(it's good to be flexible... crotchless pantyhose another time), and laid back to
watch her fit into the tight top and put on the stockings; she enjoys knowing
how it turns me on, seeing her dress for sex. She sat cross-legged on the bed,
and I knelt behind her, to kiss and caress her neck and body; then she laid down.
"Now let's see about this Bondage Bar, er strap...", as I reached
down and wrapped an outer cuff around each ankle, and Bianca adjusted to having
her legs restrained. "OK, now your wrists...", I ordered her,
motioning for her to sit up. "Wha..huh..you mean sit up? No, I don't bend like
that..." she protested, but relented, and I helped her sit up and lean
forward until her wrists were also cuffed to the strap; she wiggled around
adjusting herself as I knelt behind her again. Now each touch evoked little
moans, and trembling, and my very hard cock pressing into Bianca's back; this bondage
strap has potential (!). Enough for now though, so I released her wrist cuffs and
she laid back down. Much to my delight, Bianca asked, "Where's my new
gag...?". I very quickly handed it to her, and she placed the bar
in her mouth, crossed the sash under her head (not tied yet...), laid her head back
down, and said, "Mffmmmm...!". So hot.
Now it was time for more restraint.
I cuffed her wrists and fastened them to the bed straps from the top of the
bed. And feeling very naughty, I used a belt around her thighs to draw her legs
tightly together. "Mmffffmmmmm...!!", she gasped with my every touch
and tease from then on. Being gagged wildly increased Bianca's arousal; she would
tell me later, that since she couldn't say anything, she just surrendered, more
than ever before, and wow, with my lubed finger on her clit, between her tightly-bound
legs, her thrashing orgasm was certainly epic. Then with her still shaking, and
moaning hot gag talk, I took off the belt, so her legs could open, but only a
little, because her ankles were still cuffed to the bondage strap...! And that
was just open enough for me to ride her missionary-style, pounding hard, while
she kept coming the whole time, bucking and pulling on the wrist restraint straps,
with her moans muffled through the bar gag for a thrilling sound track, I came
like a freight train. No fantasy this time, Bianca was really gagged and very
much loving it...!
I was speechless, too. A new era has arrived.We liked these products a lot.