SILICONE THUNDER

“Wow!  Bianca craves Shibari…!”, I thought repeatedly.  What a delicious surprise.  Later that night, I prepared a short movie from some Shibari images that I found online, and some illustrated tying instructions.  I sent it to her, knowing she’ll read her emails in the morning before I wake up.

She loved the movie. We laughed about this whole thing being such a surprise, that Bianca would step us into Shibari bondage, crotch ropes and all, for our next sexy bondage adventure. Neither of us ever saw it coming!  It’s immediately very exciting. “It’s this rope…”, Bianca says. That night she had a dream where the ropes were wrapped all down her legs.  She soon got her wish.

This time, Bianca got fancy with both the purple and black silicone ropes, tying a purple harness with a double crotch rope, then weaving in the black one across her hips, leaving the ends dangling down her legs.  I almost applauded…!  She had selected a vibrator (Dr Laura’s Sina), and she wanted to be blindfolded.  And restrained.  My wife is wonderful.

She picked a blindfold, and I handed it to her to put on.  I cuffed her arms firmly out to the sides of the bed, followed by much kissing and teasing, and beginning to wrap the black rope around each leg.  I used the vibrator a little, touching only the ropes running through Bianca’s pussy, which made her wriggle.  Now I brought both ropes down to her ankles, and wanted to tie her ankles together. “No…”, she said, “…not together…tie them so they can only go like shoulder-width apart…”.  Glad to comply, I said, “Kind of like a spreader bar…”.  “Yeh, but in reverse….”, she laughed. 

“Now let’s see what you like about these ropes…”, I said, “…we know you like them snapped onto your pussy…”; that made Bianca quiver noticeably.  “Ummmm, you’re a delicious sight”, I said, adjusting the harness closer to her nipples, and testing the spring of the crotch rope.  Then… trying a new stimulation, I snapped one rope lightly over a nipple… “Uhhhhmmmmm…!” was her sharp, and pleasured, response – ah, good, she liked.  So of course, a few more snaps.  Then ensues some dedicated snapping of the crotch ropes, some quite uh, SNAPPY…along with merciless use of the vibrator, and Bianca soon reaches a writhing, madwoman, heaving orgasm, that nearly shakes the paint off the walls. I undid her crotch rope and finished shaking the paint off. She said it was the loudest coming she’s heard me have.  The intensity is already amazing, and we have yet to tie Bianca in a classic harness.

This silicone rope is like nothing we’ve ever played with; it’s stretchy, gelatinous and strong, with lots of possibilities.  

Also, silicone is body-safe and non-porous; so it’s a great material for crotch ropes.

The black silicone rope comes with the Tie Me Up & Tease Me kit, which also includes the small soft feather tickler, a black blindfold, and a pair of ¾” stainless-steel Ben Wa balls. 

 

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The Sinful Desires kit has purple rope, a purple blindfold, and a set of silicone anal beads.  We haven’t used the beads yet. Bianca laid claim to them right away and mentioned them again today; is seems their time has uh, come…!  She also liked the nylon blindfolds, because they’re lightweight and comfortable against her face, and the single elastic strap was comfortable.  She could see out a little from underneath though.  

Today I gave Bianca an assignment – she was to put in the Ben Wa balls in the morning.  She wore them for a few hours, mostly sitting on the couch, but walking around some, too.  She’s asked me to report for her; so there’s no Bianca guest post this time.  Turns out, there’s a learning curve to enjoying these.  Keeping them in takes attention and effort – they have gravity on their side, so you have to use kegels to hold them in sometimes; that’s the exercise.  And she also discovered that rocking delivered the most pleasure…while she read about Ben Wa balls online, and showed us a woman’s video about having sex with the balls still inside her. Given that later, Bianca cut my hair topless, with satin sashes tied around her breasts and waist, Ben Wa balls in the morning is a great way to start the day!  No wonder they’ve been around so long…! 

Shibari harness and anal beads?  Ben Wa balls and pussy snapping?  We’re having a pretty good time over here!

SHIBARI, SILICONE & SPANKING

Thanks to Bianca's astonishingly naughty erotic imagination, and a double-header of new sex toys to review, things are very exciting around here…!  Our role as "Sexperts" has expanded, and we now receive two new products to evaluate every month.  So, being conscientious and all, we’ve been having more sex.  Then this month, we received two kits of products, from Calexotics' new “Nick Hawk” line:  Sinful Desires (3 pc kit), and Tie Me Up & Tease Me (4 pc kit).  That gave us a total of seven (!!) new products to review. Life is good.

 

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One of those products, in particular, has been on my mind for a while – silicone rope, which first appeared on the market about a year ago.  I’ve been intrigued and tantalized ever since, and repeatedly asked to do a review of that product. My persistence paid off, because each kit we received contained a 20’ length of silicone rope!  Sinful Desires is purple, Tie Me Up & Tease Me is black.  I tore open the packages to get to the rope.  This stuff has a very unique feel, like I had imagined: stretchy, squiggly, soft and smooth, and surprisingly cool to the touch, it was instant sexy bondage, more thrilling than any rope I've ever felt.  I handed the purple bundle to Bianca.  “Ohh, this gives me ideas…”, she said, “I like it..”.  We would soon to find out just how much. 

The next morning, one of the first things Bianca said to me was…“I’ve been imagining having these ropes wrapped all around my body…!”.  A little stunned, I mumbled, “Oh, uhh, wow…WOW!”  She was grinning broadly.  What a great wake-up surprise – bondage fantasies are usually my department, and this was an exciting twist.  We both work from home, and so throughout the day, I’d ask Bianca what she had imagined, and she’d share some aspect of her fantasy, and then more the next time I asked, until by late afternoon…we were more than ready to end our workday, and we headed into the bedroom with the silicone rope.  So glad I had washed and cleaned the ropes earlier (hint); having everything ready keeps the heat going.  Bianca said, “Give me the purple one…and ten minutes…”, and went into her dressing room. 

She came out wearing only the rope.  It was wrapped a few times around her breasts, then one rope down her back and under, pulled up through her pussy and tied at her breasts, a long crotch rope.  Life is good.  Kisses standing up, me tugging on the rope behind her. More kisses sitting up in bed, then with her lying on her back, I adjust the breast ropes across her nipples, using stretch of this silicone rope to pleasure’s advantage.  Stroking her skin with my fingers, with the little feather teaser (from the other Nic Hawk set…), and with my lips and tongue, Bianca’s pussy plumped, and seemed to double in size…it was practically begging for a spanking…!  When I told her I was going to spank her pussy with the crop; she was already pretty much non-verbal, and “Uhhhhmm..mm…” is all she said.  But first, for added intensity, I reached across her, and from under the mattress, grabbed a wrist cuff (always be ready…), and restrained her right arm to the side.  More kisses and teasing, much rope-tugging and wriggling.  “Remember, crop spanks come sets of three…”, I told her. “Uhhhhmm..mm…” is all she said.  I prescribed more restraint.  I slid back, took the other side’s wrist cuff from under the mattress, and cuffed her other arm. “Now, that’s better…!”, I grinned, teasing her with the crop’s leather tip before the first smack, as her hips already arched upwards.  I’m a lucky man. “First one…”, I prepared her.  SMACK..!  “Oohhh-nnuhh…!”  “Second one…”, a little harder: SMACKCK…! “Ooohhhh-nnuhhuhhh…!”.  “Third one..”, a lot harder: SSMAACKCK…! “Oh..oh..ohhnnnnnn…uhhhhh…!”, Bianca almost screamed, as she arched upwards and started laughing hysterically, a sure sign that she had crossed some new pain/pleasure threshold.  But the best was yet to come, as three words were about to be forever enshrined in my life’s “best-of” moments.

Barely having settled down from the crop spanking, Bianca then said in a breathy, urgent voice, “Now snap it…”  My cock felt a foot longer.  Quickly getting over my surprise (!), I carefully pulled back on the silicone cord like a rubber band, feeling Bianca began to vibrate with anticipation…and then I released it to snap across her pussy…!  She bucked and quivered, moaning a deep “…uhhhhnnnnnn…oooohuhhhhh…!!“, WOW.  She grunted the same each time I snapped that elastic cord.  WOW!. This was insanely hot for both of us.  I should have fucked her right then.

I thought to further enhance things by applying more restraint, so I took out the other length of silicone rope, the Black one from the other set, and tied one end around Bianca’s left ankle, and the other to her wrist cuff.  I slid down to cunniling her to orgasm, and we quickly got a hot rhythm going, with the rope adding what Bianca told me later felt like another finger. But…we went stale, with no happy ending, and finally Bianca said, “get me out of these…”.  We have long safe words.  I wasn’t hard anymore either, a sign that our rhythm was flat.

Bianca explained what happened for her. “You tried to make this your thing, adding all the restraints, instead of enjoying it as my thing, just the way I brought it to you, and exploring how it excites me.”  I could immediately see what she meant, and apologized for that. “This was still great sex, so don’t stop trying stuff…”, she reminded me with a grin. I'm a lucky man.

“You know”, I said, “there’s an ancient bondage practice / artform called Shibari, which emphasizes beautifully-tied rope harnesses applied for stimulation and restraint, even sometimes used for suspension positions…”, I told Bianca, “…and that’s what we’ve got here…”, I said. “Well, I’m not up for any suspension bondage, but whatever you call it, I like the way these ropes feel wrapped around my body.  And it’s just these ropes, something about how the silicone feels.  Plus...there’s the ability to snap them…anywhere…!”, she added.  We have some good times ahead.

Denise's Surprise PART 1

She just got back from traveling to do a fetish shoot, and after a cold week in Chicago, Denise was glad to be home; it was still a little chilly, but nothing like Chicago.  First thing, she went up to her apartment, dropped off her luggage, got undressed, took a shower, and changed into her favorite comfy clothes, sweatpants and a v-neck t-shirt.  She relaxed for a while, then came back down to collect her mail.  When the concierge returned with her stuff, there was an unexpected package, a long box, like the size long-stem roses might come in.  “Hmm, what’s this..?”, she wondered, grinning - and tingling just a bit - she saw that it was from Janine and Brian.  “Now I really wonder what this is…!”, she thought, tucking the fairly light package under her arm, and heading for the elevator.  Did this have something to do with the movie Brian had shot?  She wondered what they could be sending her.  Remembering the movie episode had already made her wet.

Once back in her apartment, Denise tore open the box.  There were two items – a DVD, and another long, slim package; there was a note on the DVD:  “Watch this before opening the other package.  Love, Janine and Brian”.  Ha!  It was the movie.  “Oh, this is going to be wild!  Excited and relaxed at the same time…!”, she mused, “…perfect for tonight…I’ll get ready to watch in my bedroom”, she muttered to herself.  She went into the kitchen and poured a glass of wine, and brought it to her nightable, turning out the lights in the rest of the apartment.  She put the DVD into the slot.  Then she took off her sweatpants, and climbed into bed with the remote.  “Oh yeh, one other thing…”, she thought with a devilish grin, as she opened her nightable drawer, “I have that same vibrator from the movie right here…”, and after a quick battery check, she brought it under the covers with her, propped up pillows, took a big gulp of wine, and pressed PLAY.

MILF in Bondage Day 2013

Once again, it's our annual, kinky take on Mothers' Day...it's "MILF in Bondage Day", M-I-L-to-F, when she's tied up.  And we celebrate with a selection of sexy bondage stuff around this theme.  Come see!

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Wow.  This month we got two new products from California Exotics to try, both from their new First Time Fetish line.  I really, really like this job.

So let's get right to it.  First is the Seduction Kit, which consists of four 30” long, grey satin sashes, along with a matching blindfold.  All are made from a thin, silky material, with black accent stitching around the edges.  The blindfold has two elastic straps, and is very form-fitting because the material is so thin, but...it also allows enough light through to see shapes, which diminishes the effect of being blindfolded.  For a first-timer though, this may be a good thing, since that's less threatening than complete blackness. 

 

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A blindfold is probably Bianca’s favorite bit of bdsm gear; she likes the thrill of erotic anticipation, of not being able to see what's coming next…besides her…!  Tonight I set out a fitted black leather blindfold, along with the satin sashes, and waited for Binaca in the bedroom.  She was playing right along, dressed for fun, in a schoolgirl outfit, a pink plaid skirt and stretchy white blouse, which she had completed with white cotton panties; with a smile, Bianca lifted her skirt to show me the panties.

She stretched out on the bed, her tantalizing mix of skin and plaid, which I enjoyed thoroughly by touch and sight, heated up, as we kissed, stroked, pressed against each other.  Until it was time for her blindfold, which I had her put on, and lay back down for more stroking and kissing, noticeably hotter now.  Then I suddenly stopped, and to her surprised gasps, I reached under her skirt, grabbed her panties off, picked up a sash, and tied her ankles together.  She was still shaking while I teased her thighs and breasts; her nipples were trying to push through the stretchy blouse.  Now I took my time, savoring her shivers of delight, and how her legs pulled against the ankle sash.  Sidebar:  This showed one of the shortcomings of these sashes.  They're only 30” long, which was barely enough to cross-tie Bianca’s ankles.  Just keep that in mind – they’re kind of short.  

Our testing continues.  A long, thin silk ribbon is one of our favorite bdsm accessories.  Surprised?  Here’s why:  Bianca loves the feeling of that ribbon being pulled slowly through her pussy, tightly, right over her clit, and I love being the puller…!  So it was time to try that trick with one of these new sashes.  I untied Bianca’s legs, draped the sash on the bed between her thighs, being sure to brush across her pussy (quivers..!), then reached into the nightstand and took out a length of black rope (hint: always keep rope nearby…).

So she could feel the rope I laid some across her bare stomach (more quivers…!), and she lifted her hips off the bed.  I pulled the roped around underneath her, and with her arms at her sides, tied the rope around her waist and wrists, and spread her legs.  Now, with one hand pressing down on the sash gathered between her legs, I pulled the end slowly and tightly through her pussy, so it remained right against her clit.  As expected, this drove her crazy, producing a chorus of little moans, music to my ears. 

And that was it for the sashes, as I couldn't wait to be inside her.  She wanted the blindfold off now, which I gladly obliged, and we proceeded to deeper thrills.  The pussy sash had done its job, and Bianca was scorchingly hot.  And ready for our testing to continue, with the second bdsm accessory, Nipple Teasers, also part of the First Time collection.  This is a set of alligator style nipple clips, with soft plastic coated tips, and pressure adjustment, connected by a 12” chain; it’s a classic piece of bdsm gear.

 

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Nipple teasing is a tricky issue with Bianca, because her nipples are very sensitive.  However, as she gets closer to orgasm, her pain/pleasure tolerance goes way up, and the right amount of nipple pinching has proven to really stoke her fires.  She was hot enough now to consider using the clips - gotta be bold - so with a very moderate pressure, I gingerly, momentarily applied one clip.  Bianca responded immediately, squirming and moaning, and we quickly developed a throbbing rhythm with me alternately applying and releasing the clip.  But…

We never got to the second clip, because as I shifted position, I inadvertently pressed down on the other end of the chain, which yanked hard on the clip attached to her nipple...!  Bianca screamed, and not the good kind; as you might imagine, this was a real mood-breaker.  Off with the clip!!  Amazingly enough though, she said to me afterward, “Don’t stop trying….”  I’m a lucky man. 

OK, now sashes aside, we quickly got back to our orgasmic pursuits, heat intact, maybe even a little enhanced by the shock, and Bianca climaxed hotly and wildly, with me following almost immediately.  Sex is the only game where finishing second is winning! 

After we same back to earth, we explored the sashes further.  We tried tying two sashes together - with a big knot – to use as a gag.  That works great, but Bianca was concerned about having the fabric in her mouth, since we hadn't washed the sashes first.  So maybe we'll try that next time, after doing the laundry...!  And two sashes tied together would provide other options. 

Overall, both of these products are perfect for novices: a simple, basic bdsm set that provides lots of restraint possibilities, and an introduction to the edgy thrills of nipple play. I’d recommend starting with the Seduction Kit, and you’ll soon know if sexy bondage is for you.