CROSS STRAP TIGHTER

A terrific benefit of being sex products merchants is that we sometimes get samples of new products to try. We're also "Sexperts", a group of reviewers for a major pleasure products company, and they send us new goodies almost every month to use and blog about. This wonderful arrangement forces us to have adventurous sex, because we never know what will arrive, and also to have more sex, because hey, even if we're not in the mood, blogs are due...! Tough spot, I know. Because of our fondness for bdsm and especially bondage (we get to request our interest...), we often receive sexy bondage products, like we did this month.

"Oh, very cool...", I grinned when the cardboard box was open, and the Bed Cross strap system package was inside. We're big fans of bed bondage systems, and already have two of them installed under our mattress, so there's two straps along each side, head and foot of the bed; eight straps means lots of hot restraint. Now we had this criss-cross idea, like the classic standing pose, the St Andrew's Cross, only laying down. I opened the package, and spread everything out on the dining room table. Bianca glanced over. "C'mere..." I invited her to try on the narrow cuffs, and wrapped one of them around her wrist. "Nice...", she said, "...matches the other pieces we've gotten. I like the brocade...", she smiled, "...we'll have to try it later.".

BED CROSS BONDAGE

At first, I didn't think this strap system could be any better than our current setup, which can already be made very restrictive, much to Bianca's increasing pleasures, but it's not good to rush to judgment, so that weekend, I installed the cross system on our bed; took a little figuring out - there's a lot of straps. Bianca had dressed for the event in white fishnet thigh-highs and a loose, satiny top, and sat in the corner chair watching me. "You know, this would be great for vacations...", she said, "...you could easily bring this anywhere". "Or a bondage staycation...", I said, reaching for one of the cuffs and turning around. "Hold out your wrist...", I invited.

"You know, this thing is too long...", Bianca said, talking about the Velcro tab that secures the cuffs. "Maybe you have the ankle cuffs...?", she asked. "No...", as I checked and found they were all the same size. I got a scissors to cut the tab, first on this wrist, then the other one. "They look great, slim and trim...how do they feel...?, I asked. "Comfortable...", she smiled, as I knelt in front of her to cuff her ankles. A word of caution: Velcro-tab cuffs can get deeply caught in fishnet anything, so be careful. Now cuffed and ready, Bianca got up, and laid out on the bed, over the cross; I laid on my side next to her for some soft touch, kissing, stroking and stoking, until it was time to get up.

Starting with her legs, I attaching the ankle cuffs to rings on the straps. "Oh, too tight...", she begged me, so I moved to the next looser ring. Then her arms, outstretched, cuffs attached to the next-to-last rings on both straps. "Mmmmm, nice....", I grinned, "...and I have a surprise for you." I held up the remote-controlled egg vibrator we've been enjoying lately. "Ohhhhh...uhhhhhhhhh", Bianca quivered and twisted as I spread lube on the egg, and her, and slowly slid the vibrator completely inside her. And turned on the slowest speed; nine more to go.

Between the egg thumping inside her, and me teasing her breast, nipples and clit, Bianca was steadily moaning and writhing. Somewhere around speed five, inspiration struck. I grabbed a length of black rope, and tied it tightly around each thigh and the cross strap underneath, making Bianca's legs nearly immobile. We're exploring how, despite herself, she gets more pleasure the more tightly she's restrained; tying her thighs like that definitely set some new boundaries...! By the time the vibrator reached max, Bianca was coming like mad, tugging, writhing, thumping her hips, screaming pleasure scare-the-neighbors, OMG I can't believe I just came like that, loud. Exactly what I had in mind.

So now I'm convinced - this bondage crosssystem provides deep thrills. Could be the best bondage getaway weekend gear ev-er. And for us, even though setup takes awhile, we'll certainly use it again. Although next time, Bianca will have her legs tied together, with the egg already humming inside her, while she waits for me to set up the straps...!

FOUR RED LEATHER CUFFS

"You can tie me up...", Bianca offered invitingly, "...quick though, I don't know how much I have left...!", she gushed. Our bondage sex is even hotter when she asks for it. "Mmmm, that'd be hot...", I smiled, reaching for our favorite cuffs in the bedside drawer. Bianca was still shaking from having come so hard. We had orchestrated a whopper, her using the little vibrator on herself, with me lying next to her stroking her thighs, teasing and squeezing her nipples harder and harder until she finally exploded. Good thing I know she's got a huge capacity for pleasure. I got right to cuffing her.

This was gonna be fast and hot. Left ankle...cuffed and attached to underbed strap from the side...right ankle...cuffed and attached to underbed strap from the side, little tug for a wider spread. These cuffs are cool. Real nice red leather, with a hoop-and-slot adjustment, and a strap that wraps around to secure them, with no buckle required, so there's very little metal, making them comfortable. Putting them on is simple, unique, very sensual, and hot, every time. Right wrist...cuffed and attached to underbed strap from the side...left wrist...cuffed and attached to underbed strap from the side, tug a little tighter for that dominant touch. Having an underbed strap system? If you're into regular bedroom bondage, you need one of these. And here's the best part. The moment I finished restraining her, Bianca instinctively, visibly tugged on the straps, and I coulda come right then.

I thought about blindfolding her, too, but was more than ready to be inside, so I knelt between her legs and slowly brushed the hairs and lips of her pussy apart, slid my hands under her butt, teasing her and more me - squeezing her ass cheeks gets me so hard - and finally dripping some lube first, I dove in. "OMG, it felt like you were a foot long...!", Bianca told me later. It most excitingly did, and I definitely wrung out everything she (and I...) had left, pumping intensely from our favorite cross-X position. "Ohhhh, put...your leg...over...uhhhhh...", she had begged me. I'm always glad to oblige, and with more deep thrusting came my grunting, drooling orgasm that just wrecked us. Nice.

Having good bondage gear makes a difference. Ultimately, it's an admission of your authentic kinky self, and while that can be challenging or difficult to admit, once you do, the pleasure potential goes up significantly. If it's easier to handle the mechanics of restraint, there's more sexual energy available for deeper thrills. A very sound investment...!

REMOTELY INTIMATE EGG

We finally got a new battery. It's an odd one, none of our usual shops carries them, and I wasn't shopping online at the time. Hooray... and now I could get the vibrating egg working again. We've tried two remote vibrators, and each time, the ability to change at will what Bianca was feeling proved tremendously exciting, for both of us. We have a very nice set of vibrating twin balls, but they're not remote-controlled, so once set to a pattern, and inside, groping around to change the mode just isn't happening. Remote control is the only way to go.

So, new battery into the remote, a pair of AAs into the egg, test and - buzzzz - game on; as usual, I had a plan...and we had a date. "I have this idea...", I smiled. Bianca gave me that oh-what-now look, half grinningly. I continued, "I see you lying on your side, with your wrists cuffed together and attached to a side bedstrap, and your legs cuffed at the ankles. And you've got the egg inside you." And I motioned towards having her lay on her right side. "No, not that way, I'm more comfortable on my left side...", Bianca said, and began turning over. "Oh, cool, let's lay that way...", we laughed, and I continued, " ...and then I'd slide in behind you, snuggle up, and grind while I made you come using the remote." Bianca, now comfortably on her left side, eagerly stretched out her arms; I brought out the padded wrist cuffs and stood next to the bed.

Our bed is tall, about at cock level, so while I'm cuffing one wrist, Bianca's other hand is around my cock. Then of course, I had to make her let go, and be cuffed...and clipped to the other wrist. She laid on her back, and spread wide for me; with generous lube I slowly and steadily inserted the egg deep inside. "Uuhhhho-o-o-o-ohh...!", she giggled and wriggled as the egg went in. "Good...", I smiled, "...now let's finish the bondage." I stood back up, Bianca rolled onto her side, and I clipped her wrists to the bed strap, and made it tight enough to pull her arms a little, making me much harder. 

Wordlessly, using the collar that matches the cuffs (stylin'...), I did one of my favorite discoveries - the collar also makes a perfect ankle cuff - and quickly had Bianca's ankles cuffed together, but not attached to a bed strap; I wanted her to be able to move her legs when the vibrations made her tremble. Now I slid in behind her, remote in hand, cock between the cheeks of her ass. "Mmmmmmm...." we both made the same noise. "I usually sleep on this side", she said, "so it's very comfortable...and you feel really nice..."; I could imagine her smiling. "How's this?", I asked, turning on the egg to the first steady vibration.

"OOHHmmmmmmmm....!!", Bianca was making more noise than me now, and happily surprised me when she leaned her head back, smiled and said, "The ankle cuff isn't tight enough...". That's my girl. Always glad to oblige, I crossed her ankles and buckled the cuff nice and tight, laid back down in spooning position, with the remote, and moved through the two faster steady vibrations, to the first intermittent one; Bianca likes those, and there were six more to go...!  Feeling her hips grinding back and forth as I increased the patterns was sensational, until...she came like crazy with my fingers on her clit as we reached the last, most intense pattern, she rocked back and forth over my cock, trembling and screaming in pleasure. Awesome party. Then it was one of those times she wanted to be untied when I came inside her, so I undid the cuffs, and she spread wide for me. I took out the egg and happily replaced it with something else.

The way we started, together in the spooning position, with Bianca restrained like that, was awesomely, unexpectedly intimate, snuggly even, amid the fierce arousal building like a soft heat. Here's a standout moment: at one point, I reached my arm over her breasts, and found what felt like a 25-year-old's perky breasts and hard nipples...! We're long, long past 25, so that was surprising and very hot. Amazing what fantasy hot sex can inspire. Oh, we've got big plans for this position. You should try it.

TIGHTLY NOW

"You know that half-pillow, the foam one...?", Bianca asked, "...bring that with you. I have an idea..." I liked where this was going already, and quickly found the pillow. Bianca had also brought over a beanbag pillow and now started trying different arrangements to be more comfortable laying face-down; I enjoyed watching her naked, wrestling with the pillows. "OK, that's not it...", she said, "but I want to try this...", as she placed the foam pillow in the small of her back and laid down. "Ahhh, nice...", she sighed. I laid down next to her.

                    

After a few light body strokes, I sat up and brought out the red leather cuffs and started with Bianca's waiting legs, wrapping the cuffs around her ankles, and adding a surprise - a short chain to connect the cuffs, holding her legs about a foot apart, just right for what I had planned next; and so exciting every time my hand brushed her pussy that she pulled the chain taut. Nice. Now on to her outstretched arms - I stood beside the bed and cuffed one wrist, leaning in so my cock laid in her hand while I held her wrist and connected a strap from beneath the mattress to the cuff, restraining her arm outstretched to the side. "Ooohhh...", Bianca gasped, grabbing my cock and rocking her hips when I leaned over further to stroke her pussy. Then going around the bed I fastened the other wrist cuff - enjoying the same cock play - and now - she was ready for the big surprise. Besides that little pillow, I had also brought a large, remote-controlled vibrating egg, with naughty intent, to make Bianca come insanely hot with her legs tied together. Watching her writhe and buck when she comes like that makes me incredibly hard. 

Kneeling on the bed between her legs, I eased the egg gently into place, nuzzled against her pussy and clit, leaned back, and pressed the remote control. "Oohhh...ohhh...ummmm...!", she gurgled, her body quivering in response, and the chain between her ankles pulled very taut...! This vibrator has 10 patterns, and Bianca loves the intermittent, escalating ones best, so I built quickly through the increasing steady speeds ("...oohh....ooooh...OHH...!) to the first wave pattern, and held there; having so much easy control over the vibrator is awesome. Then it was back to long slow body strokes, hips, legs, breasts, nipples...until I brought out a leather belt, and tightened it around her legs just below the knees, and the intensity quadrupled; her thighs felt electric to touch. 

I was planning to restrain her legs apart, so I connected one ankle cuff to a bed strap...and it was so hot...one restrained leg, that taut chain...that I didn't do the other leg, not just yet. It was time for Bianca to come. I loosened the belt around her legs and retrieved the egg, slathered it with lube, and this time, inserted it fully inside her. And went all the way to the wildest pattern. And re-tightened the belt. "OOOHHH...uuhhn...nnggghh...", Bianca groaned deeply, as I teased and pinched her nipples, fondled and squeezed her hips and butt, in flesh pleasures, driving her to one of those thunderous orgasms of disbelief, shaking, moaning, pulling hard on the restraint straps, thrusting. So freakin' hot.

Hmmm, my turn. Now, Bianca's legs would be restrained apart, so with another strap from under the mattress (I'm telling you, this is the best sex toy e-v-e-r...), I had her fully and deliciously spread-eagled. Yum. And the egg I removed from her vagina, set on the lowest rumble, and slid between her butt cheeks, resting between her and the bed, for an extra tingle. YUM. More lube for both of us, and a very hot and hard missionary entrance made us grunt together, "Uhhhhnnngggg...uuuhhhh....!" as I slid to our favorite side-saddle position for deep penetration, and uh, wailed away...! Naughty dom that I am, I reached up and tightened one of Bianca's wrist straps, against futile protests, and the heat jumped big time; tighter restraint means more intense sensation, I always say. Later, Bianca would faux-complain about the impressions left from the cuff being pulled so tight. But now, I felt like a pile-driver, and surprised us both with a very long cock ride. Feeling her stretched body beneath me, helplessly restrained and still quaking from coming so hard, drives me wild. It's good to be king...and have a well-equipped pleasure chest.