One of the perks of being in the sex toy business is getting samples, like the outfit and the vibrator above. We must test these products of course. OMFG! It was quite a night...! Solved a three-piece puzzle, rewarded with thunderous orgasms. Details soon.
Yes, sampling the toys is a favorite play time for me too. I am the lucky woman whose love story includes being Sean's one and only and the woman who receives all his sexing. The gift is always in his motto, "sex is the only game where coming in second is winning!" And after 26 years of monogamous sex I can honestly say, I still get hot for my man and he still gets hot for me. As I recently told friends at brunch last week when asked if I like being tied up, I replied, "I'm a bossy, powerful woman in the business world, and at home I'm his sex kitten waiting to be bossed by her man!" For me it's about surrendering to his being in control and relinquishing the need to control, it's that simple. I'm a baby boomer and for me keeping it interesting has always been my game. For our anniversary last week I put on the outfit in the photo here and it sparked his request to have me use the new vibrator with my hands tied together. I didn't go into my head about it. I stayed in my body and enjoyed the physical awareness each induced and relished every advance he made on my body. WOW. What a treat. That wasn't always the case. I must admit I was a hard sell on this tie-her-up stuff. The feminist in me balked. The idea of being objectified screamed in my head. Marginalized women, women who suffer being controlled and abused came up. And our love making wasn't any of that, my man wants to see that I have the greatest pleasure he can provide. He doesn't objectifying me, he isn't making me suffer (unless you consider having a long, long, long orgasism suffering, I don't), he never hurts me or insults my dignity. It's always been for mutual enjoyment. As I get older (I love our organic gel lubricant, it's fabulous) I enjoy an element of surprise each and every day and sometimes that's innovative sex play! I love you, happy anniversary. xxx b.g.
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