COLLARED & CUFFED

Bianca generally doesn't like anything tight around her neck, so I was excitedly surprised when she told me that wearing a collar sounded sexy to her.  At my request, our friends at CalExotics soon provided one for our monthly reviews.  The Collar With Leash set is from their new Scandal mid-range bdsm line, which is made with brocade fabric, faux leather lining, and black hardware; we've already reviewed and liked, a few other items from the line.  We're so fortunate, being in the position of "having to" try out new sex toys every month; it's one of our business's best perks...!

COLLAR & LEASH SET

Now this collar makes quite an impression - it's almost 1-3/4" wide, unexpectedly heavy, and adjusts with a large buckle in back.  The red-and-black brocade fabric is quite elegant, and makes a hot combo with the heavy black hardware; it also goes well with red or black lingerie - we'll get to that in a minute.  The leash is a heavy link chain, with a large snap-clip for attaching to the collar's O-ring, and a loop handle end; I found the chain's weight very sexy.

Bianca had agree to wear stockings to bed, and tonight she chose red ones, sheer lace-top thigh highs, with our favorite stretch lace, off-shoulder red top . . . and no panties.  She sat up, cross-legged, and lifted her chin as I knelt behind her, reached around with the collar, and began to buckle the collar around her neck, letting the chain hang down into her lap.  "Too tight...", she said.  Still kneeling behind her, I loosened the buckle one hole.  "Better...ummh", Bianca said, as I stroked her neck and collar, then her breasts through the taut stretch lace, and toyed with the chain hanging down at her pussy.  We slid down and stretched out together on the bed, her on her back.  I draped the leash across her breasts and stomach, then down to her pussy; she wriggled along with the chain. It was hot seeing Bianca in a collar - I tugged on the chain as I fingered her pussy, making sure she'd feel the collar against her neck. 

For looks, I had selected matching Scandal wrist cuffs, and red leather ankle cuffs, Bianca's favorites.  I cuffed her wrists and ankles, then clipped the cuffs to the restraint straps we keep under the mattress (see below).  Arms outstretched, legs apart, she adjusted her body as I tightened the straps to widen her spreadeagle, and pulled the collar chain through her pussy.  "Uuhhhhhh....oww!!"  I had caught a hair.  "Oil...", she begged.  "Oil...", I delivered our favorite lube, laid the chain back down and gave it a tug.  "Uhhhhhnnnngggguuuh.." was the happy response.  Bianca looked incredibly hot wearing a collar, and this one's got sophisticated looks; it's very likely to show up in our bedroom again.

There's two things we'd change about the product.  First, the packaging.  What Bianca noticed was that where the collar had been folded to fit into a long, slim box, the fabric had creased and raised up, which ultimately made it uncomfortable; she was OK wearing it for about a half-hour though.  I'd recommend that the collar be packed with a round cardboard insert, like on a dress shirt collar, to eliminate any creasing. And second, I wished the leash chain was 6" longer, for more pussy play; Bianca's tall though, so your fit will vary. 

  

UNDERBED RESTRAINTS

SEE OUR SELECTION OF UNDERBED RESTRAINTS

  An underbed restraint system is the most important, convenient, and wonderful thing you can add to your bdsm bedroom.  Getting your partner tied up quickly and gracefully helps keeps the excitement on a boil, and having four restraint straps a quick reach away makes almost anything possible.  If you still like bondage sex after being tied to the bedframe a few times - don't be shy now - you'll probably want to keep playing.  It's OK, we're kinky too!  If this describes you, or if you're one of those people who does things in a big way, even the first time, then please get one of the underbed systems now.  Put it under your mattress, get over the degree to which it takes your bondage self out of the closet (!), and you'll have better bondage sex. You can thank me later.