NEW BALLS

What's sometimes called "forced orgasm", in bdsm practices, around here, we call "bondage masturbation". And there's nothing forced about it. Bianca has willingly given up control, and can't touch herself because of how she's bound. But let me assure you, she'd masturbate if she could, and is craving that orgasm, especially knowing that I'll build her arousal further than she would herself, and make her come wildly, insanely. When she's helplessly tied up, it's a rock-hard thrill for me to masturbate her, especially with a vibrator. Bianca likes vibrators, and she comes even harder with one - she practically levitates! Feeling her come like that makes me even harder, and then...with her still shaking, and still bound, I usually make a show of tightening and stretching her restraints - that really stokes the fires - and then, taking advantage of her more-quivering pussy is mind-blowingly, excruciatingly hot. That's bondage masturbation, an intense, generous and selfish pleasure. "Do me your way...", she invited me.

We're "Sexperts", monthly reviewers for a major adult products company. And this month, we got a set of love balls, from the company's new embrace line. We're in a sex toy renaissance, and throughout the industry, new products are showing more thoughtful, innovative design, and using higher-quality materials. These love balls are a great example. This dual-motor vibrator consists of two 1-1/2" diameter balls connected by a flexible sleeve with a wraparound, smooth silicone finish; only a small circle of ABS shows where the silicone retrieval loop is attached, and you can barely feel the seam. Plus, it recharges by USB, which reduces battery e-waste. Good features. But we only learned about the vibrator part later, uh, I mean not yet.

When this package arrived, I opened the (very nice...) box without reading the features listed on the back. The front just says "love balls", so when I saw the balls and loop cut neatly into a foam sheet, they looked like other non-vibrating balls I had seen; there was nothing visible to indicate this was a vibrator. So that's how we used them, and they played well; they took some getting used to, Bianca said, and overall she enjoyed them. I'm anticipating even greater joy when we add those vibrations...! Turns out the USB charging cord was in the box, hiding under the foam and a false bottom. 

VIBRATING LOVE BALLS

Sometimes, a particular stimulator will wear out its welcome, and in that moment, may even appear to have been a letdown...but I know better. Using these balls was one of those times. We got (mostly) naked and into fun mode, and to address Bianca's concern that the retrieval cord was too short (girlfriends, emergency-room visits, yadayada...), we tied a ribbon to the existing silicone loop, and with our favorite lube, she slowly inserted the twin balls. Ummmmm...and look, the ribbon gives you something to play with...", she smiled. We also had one of her new favorite vibrators out, the Bloom, and she began using that on her clit, while I wrapped the ribbon under her legs and pulled it tightly up across her pussy; she totally loves that. Then, with more restraint in mind, I reached into the nightable drawer, took out Bianca's favorite red leather cuffs, and slid down to cuff one ankle, while she kept the vibrator and herself humming. A quick reach under the mattress for the always-ready bondage strap, and one leg was restrained; moving to the other side, I restrained her other ankle, so now Bianca's legs were spread wide apart. Hotter. We both like this slow, sensual, progressive bondage. I cuffed one wrist and tethered her arm outstretched to the side, and finally, she reluctantly let me take the vibrator away from her, and I tied her other arm outstretched. "Ohhh, now take those balls out..." she begged. "They're annoying me, I need to get used to them...". Then, "...ahhhhh...UHHH!...", as I withdrew the balls slowly...and came right back with the vibrator, making her hips shudder and her pussy wrap around the vibrator as I stroked her clit. It's a good thing she was tied down, because Bianca was nearly levitating when she finally came...! Wow. And then of course, I took my pleasures with her, being fully restrained spread-eagle as she was. Very hot.

Now back to what I said earlier. This twin-ball vibrator, even without vibration (!), and even leaving before Bianca came, helped build her to an a legendary orgasm! So although at one point it annoyed her (or maybe because it did...?), this little stimulator has opened some exciting possibilities. Adjusting to new sensations can take time. Of course, if what you're doing doesn't feel right, like when Bianca asked me to take the balls out, stop the action right then. Consider though, that with some practice, there could be enormous pleasure potential. These are toys with benefits.

This is a new type of stimulation for Bianca; I can hardly wait to see what happens when we turn the darn thing on...!