THE LITTLE DEATH

ONE VERSION

I've often heard that the French call orgasm "Le Petite Mort", the little death, and up until recently I thought that meant the floating, out-of touch with the room, collapsed into throbbing sensation, pulsing strobe light, near-loss of consciousness, twitching body feeling that comes with a good come. And then there was last Saturday afternoon.

Bianca and I showered and prepped for a rendezvous in the bedroom. I'd been imaging using one of our big vibrators on her, so I made sure it was cleaned and fully charged, and brought that with me. Bianca sat on the edge of the bed, putting on a pair of white fishnet stockings; just watching her got my dick bouncing. "My hips are a little off today...", she said, "...so I'd rather not have my legs tied apart any wider than my hips...", she implored me. "Sure honey, we can do that...", I grinned, as Bianca stretched out on her back. I stroked her tummy and breasts, "Mmmm, you  look great in those stockings...", I smiled, while reaching into the nightable drawer and taking out the small spreader bar. "Ohhh, I don't know...", she stammered, as I quickly cuffed her ankles onto the small spreader bar. "Uhhh...that's OK...", she wriggled a little to get comfortable. Knowing that Bianca can't move her legs makes my cock throb. Teasing her when can't move her legs makes Bianca's pussy quiver. Then with me on top for a moment now, I grind some selfish pleasure before sitting back up. "I thought you'd like to wear a blindfold (she usually does...), and I wanted you to try this new one...", I said. "Let me see...", she said, but it just didn't work for her. So it goes; always good to find out. "Then how about your favorite silk one?" I offered and handed it to her; she happily put it on and laid back down.

"Now about those wrists...", I mocked. "oooohhh...!", she mocked back. I sat on the side of the bed and cuffed her wrist;  she reached her arm out to the side, but I had other plans. "No, not that way...", I said, "...this way...", taking an underbed strap from the headboard, and restraining her arm up there. "Ummmm...", Bianca murmured, as I cuffed her other wrist and clipped it to a second strap; we've discovered that she likes this position as much as I do. Now, when I touched her breasts or thighs, or the hairs of her pussy, her hips would gyrate; arousal was building. "You know, you won't be able to fuck me with my legs in this spreader...", Bianca warned me. "Oh, I'll take it off when that time comes...", I promised her, "...but that's not yet...first...", I fingered her pussy with lube, and she shuddered; I turned on the vibrator and touched her clit. "Oooooohhhhhuhhhh...", she gasped, reaching her pussy forward as the thick shaft slid inside her.

This vibrator is a big, curvy rabbit type with the fleshy clit tongue set way down, so it's in very deep when that tongue's touching Bianca's clit; which it now was, filling and teasing her at the same time. I selected an intermittent, building vibration for the shaft and began a slow stroke; Bianca went slightly crazy. Then - surprise - I turned on the second motor at her clit. Before very long, Bianca's writhing, pulsing and pounding her way to an orgasm that shook the walls. I'm hard as a rock, too, watching her pulling hard against the restraints while she comes.

Ohhhh, take - this - thing - off - my - legs...", Bianca asked, her voice coming in short breath bursts because she was still coming. "Gladly...", I said, and uncuffed her ankles from the spreader bar, and withdrew the vibrator; "Ohwhwh...", she pouted. "Here, try this...", I said, cuffing each ankle and connecting them to two straps from the foot of the bed, courtesy of the underbed restraint system. "Better...?" "Uhuhhhh - yeh - uh - tha gud...", she gurgled, still quivering and coming, then thrusting upwards when I lightly smacked her thighs and pussy with a leather paddle, just a few times for that extra sting thrill. Now about that little death.

At this point, I'm almost ready to fuck her. First though, I slowly tighten each of the bondage straps, raising Bianca's arms up higher, and pulling her legs down more firmly. We've discovered, happily, that after coming, more restrictive restraint gets Bianca hotter, edging her out onto the submissive skinny branches. A few more smacks of the paddle, "Ooohhhhhhh...!", and I moved between her legs, and my cock practically leapt into her pussy. First straight-on, then from this kind of half-cross position we like, I pounded Bianca hard, and her arms strained in mid-air, pulling the restraint straps taut; very hot for me to see. Then I'd run my arm down her leg to feel skin, stockings, and the cuff on her ankle. Ummmm. I was 20 again, and pumping like a locomotive. We were both nearly crying in amazement and pleasure when something happened after I started to come. In my overall body sensation there was calm and bright lights, my hips were still thrusting, faster even, and I heard clear thoughts, "Am I going to die right now...wow, what a strange thing to ask myself...uh, I don't know...", but clearly nothing was stopping this orgasm. And it was one wild ride, with  a very loud soundtrack; after consciousness returned, we both burst out laughing. This was a great little death.

BONDAGE MASTURBATION

A PERSONAL VIEWPOINT

 

We're part of the cultural shift underway today, mainstreaming "BDSM" into bedrooms everywhere (thanks again, "Fifty Shades"...!)  I've even started to use "bdsm" instead, as a sign that it's unnecessary anymore to capitalize the acronym. Just have some naughty and exciting fun.

One of the traditional bondage scenes is something called "forced orgasm", in which a woman is being restrained and stimulated with a vibrator until she can't resist coming. It's often portrayed as less than consensual, and we're against that. But...using a vibrator on your tied up, willing submissive is explosively orgasmic, and we're all for that! We call it "bondage masturbation".

And there's nothing forced about it. Bianca has willingly given up control, and can't touch herself because of how she's bound. But let me assure you, she'd masturbate if she could, and is craving that orgasm, especially knowing that I'll build her arousal further than she would herself, and make her come more wildly and insanely when she's helplessly tied up. It's a rock-hard thrill for me to masturbate her with a vibrator (or two...!). Bianca likes vibrators, and she comes even harder with one - she practically levitates! Feeling her come like that makes me even harder, and then...with her still shaking, and still bound, I usually make a show of tightening and stretching her restraints first - that really stokes the fires - and then...I claim her pussy with my cock that feels two feet long. It's mind-blowingly, excruciatingly hot. Or sometimes I just stroke myself off on her breasts while she's coming...! It's all good.

Add some wicked good foreplay to your next bondage session. Which, by the way, if she's in cuffs and (mostly...) comfortable, can last longer while you use that vibrator to drive her cra-zy. Bondage masturbation is an intense, generous and selfish pleasure. "Do me your way...", Bianca invites me. Now that's what I call a "win-win"...!

TWO BALLS and a BLOOM

If you've been keeping up, you know that so far, our fun with the new dual ball stimulator was without ever turning it on, so we were both eager to find out what vibration might add, and WOW, did we ever...!  But first, about Bloom.

We're so fortunate; being in the sex toy business has great perks. Bianca has been thoroughly enjoying a set of six high-end vibrators we got as samples. That's right, a set. She grabbed them away immediately and has been pleasuring her way through all six models. These are a unique line of vibrators with soft, feminine shapes, in beautiful, seamless silicone. And I haven't seen them until recently, when she decided to share a favorite with me: Bloom. They're all top quality, and (environmentally-friendly) rechargeable, which we favor; we're adding them to the website (search "LEAF").  These same vibrators were endorsed by well-known actress Alicia Silverstone. Good stuff.

Back to the balls. Seeing Bianca positively writhing in pleasure, pulling hard against restraints, is truly one of my life's highlights, every time. This time she was wearing crotchless white lace panties while we finally figured out how to turn on the balls and cycled through the different patterns. "Oh, that's really intense..", she said, feeling the strongest setting, "...maybe too much, even the lowest speed." Until we reached the "escalating" setting, with vibrations cycling from very low to strong, which she thought would be OK. "Now this..", Bianca said, "...is perfect for me...", as she teased her pussy with the larger end, squirming around, and then handed me Bloom, still humming. I kept on teasing her pussy on top of and through the crotchless panties. Then, in what seemed like an instant, I had her wrists cuffed and arms restrained outstretched, while I continued teasing her with Bloom's large end, and soon, with lots of lube (silicone likes lube...), Bianca gasped as I inserted the vibrator fully, and kneeling over her, stroking my hard cock, listening to her moan, inspiration, struck, so to speak...and I took hold of the leather crop (always nearby), and teased her thighs with it first, and then as she tensed up knowing what was coming next, delivered a few quick smacks to her pussy, right over the vibrator still humming deep inside her. Perfect. My cock grew 3 inches I swear. 

"Now I think you're almost ready for the balls..", I promised Bianca. "But first...", I took her favorite ankle cuffs from the drawer and restrained her legs wide apart. "Whuuu...ohhhh...uhhh..." she murmured as I slid Bloom out of her pussy. "Take these panties off...", she begged me, "...oh, you can't...", she realized her legs were apart. "I'll fix things...", I smiled, and rearranged the open crotch neatly around her pussy. And I tightened her ankle restraints a little more. With the dual-ball vibrator set to the escalating pattern, and with lots of lube on pussy and vibe, I inserted the balls. "Oooohhhhhhh...!", Bianca shivered with delight. "Deeper...", she begged, until they were fully inside her. Then...with me using Bloom on her clit, sometimes just the very tip, sometimes with the whole vibrator held in place under her panties...with both ends humming...I made Bianca ride wave after wave of pleasure, almost coming a dozen times, until she begged me to take out the balls. (Later she would tell me she was a little frightened of how insane her orgasm might be with the balls inside...!)

"Whaaaaooooh...ooooh...", Bianca quivered as I took out the balls. "Ummmm...I'll masturbate myself if you give me a free hand...or maybe you should tie my wrists...", she suggested, grinning. "Hmmm, yes, a very good idea...", I chuckled, unhooked her cuffs from the restraint straps, clipped them together, and handed her Bloom. Smiling, she found the open crotch of her panties, and attended to her clit, while I laid next to her enjoying seeing her legs restrained wide apart, her wrist cuffs together, and the vibrator humming on her clit; I could feel her body tembling. Then I had another inspiration to spike the action even further. Even for the few moments left (she was about to explode...) this was gonna be very hot. Bianca loves breast bondage, especially with black siliconerope, and so, in this delicious scene I laid ropes on either side of her nipples, reached over, and tucked them under her opposite side, so now I could pull them tightly, twist and squeeze, and add more oomph to the biggasm that was about to happen, until...Bianca came wildly and loud.

Now it was time for me to get a piece of this...but first...I reached down and opened her legs even wider and tightened the restraint straps; so hotter yet. She brought her cuffed wrists up to her chest, between us, and I fairly hammered the girl to bits. I imagined her wrist cuffs were attached to a collar, and came uh, very vigorously...! Bianca whimpered weakly, "...don't break me, don't break me...!", and we both entered some alternate universe. A memorable adventure into stimulation, lots of stimulation. Next time, maybe we'll find out just how insane it would be for Bianca to come with the balls inside...! Stick around.

NEW BALLS

What's sometimes called "forced orgasm", in bdsm practices, around here, we call "bondage masturbation". And there's nothing forced about it. Bianca has willingly given up control, and can't touch herself because of how she's bound. But let me assure you, she'd masturbate if she could, and is craving that orgasm, especially knowing that I'll build her arousal further than she would herself, and make her come wildly, insanely. When she's helplessly tied up, it's a rock-hard thrill for me to masturbate her, especially with a vibrator. Bianca likes vibrators, and she comes even harder with one - she practically levitates! Feeling her come like that makes me even harder, and then...with her still shaking, and still bound, I usually make a show of tightening and stretching her restraints - that really stokes the fires - and then, taking advantage of her more-quivering pussy is mind-blowingly, excruciatingly hot. That's bondage masturbation, an intense, generous and selfish pleasure. "Do me your way...", she invited me.

We're "Sexperts", monthly reviewers for a major adult products company. And this month, we got a set of love balls, from the company's new embrace line. We're in a sex toy renaissance, and throughout the industry, new products are showing more thoughtful, innovative design, and using higher-quality materials. These love balls are a great example. This dual-motor vibrator consists of two 1-1/2" diameter balls connected by a flexible sleeve with a wraparound, smooth silicone finish; only a small circle of ABS shows where the silicone retrieval loop is attached, and you can barely feel the seam. Plus, it recharges by USB, which reduces battery e-waste. Good features. But we only learned about the vibrator part later, uh, I mean not yet.

When this package arrived, I opened the (very nice...) box without reading the features listed on the back. The front just says "love balls", so when I saw the balls and loop cut neatly into a foam sheet, they looked like other non-vibrating balls I had seen; there was nothing visible to indicate this was a vibrator. So that's how we used them, and they played well; they took some getting used to, Bianca said, and overall she enjoyed them. I'm anticipating even greater joy when we add those vibrations...! Turns out the USB charging cord was in the box, hiding under the foam and a false bottom. 

VIBRATING LOVE BALLS

Sometimes, a particular stimulator will wear out its welcome, and in that moment, may even appear to have been a letdown...but I know better. Using these balls was one of those times. We got (mostly) naked and into fun mode, and to address Bianca's concern that the retrieval cord was too short (girlfriends, emergency-room visits, yadayada...), we tied a ribbon to the existing silicone loop, and with our favorite lube, she slowly inserted the twin balls. Ummmmm...and look, the ribbon gives you something to play with...", she smiled. We also had one of her new favorite vibrators out, the Bloom, and she began using that on her clit, while I wrapped the ribbon under her legs and pulled it tightly up across her pussy; she totally loves that. Then, with more restraint in mind, I reached into the nightable drawer, took out Bianca's favorite red leather cuffs, and slid down to cuff one ankle, while she kept the vibrator and herself humming. A quick reach under the mattress for the always-ready bondage strap, and one leg was restrained; moving to the other side, I restrained her other ankle, so now Bianca's legs were spread wide apart. Hotter. We both like this slow, sensual, progressive bondage. I cuffed one wrist and tethered her arm outstretched to the side, and finally, she reluctantly let me take the vibrator away from her, and I tied her other arm outstretched. "Ohhh, now take those balls out..." she begged. "They're annoying me, I need to get used to them...". Then, "...ahhhhh...UHHH!...", as I withdrew the balls slowly...and came right back with the vibrator, making her hips shudder and her pussy wrap around the vibrator as I stroked her clit. It's a good thing she was tied down, because Bianca was nearly levitating when she finally came...! Wow. And then of course, I took my pleasures with her, being fully restrained spread-eagle as she was. Very hot.

Now back to what I said earlier. This twin-ball vibrator, even without vibration (!), and even leaving before Bianca came, helped build her to an a legendary orgasm! So although at one point it annoyed her (or maybe because it did...?), this little stimulator has opened some exciting possibilities. Adjusting to new sensations can take time. Of course, if what you're doing doesn't feel right, like when Bianca asked me to take the balls out, stop the action right then. Consider though, that with some practice, there could be enormous pleasure potential. These are toys with benefits.

This is a new type of stimulation for Bianca; I can hardly wait to see what happens when we turn the darn thing on...!